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Friday Faves 5/29: Back on the Course, Dream Team Podcast, Italian Subs, Home Before Dark

May 29, 2020 by Sean Melia in Friday Faves

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On Monday afternoon I stood on the first tee for the first time this year and promptly topped my tee shot 50 yards in front of me. I tried again, re-teeing and knowing that my golf game is going to have some rust, but not enough to top another tee shot 50 yards in front of me, right? Wrong. As a topped my way down the first three holes of my opening round of 2020, I didn’t care much about the result of the round. It was an odd one to be sure, playing in a foursome with two strangers, who were friends of the organizer of the foursome.

Driving out of the city for only the second time all spring, it was one of those baby step moments that gave me a bit of hope. There are things we all miss doing, and I’m fortunate that some of my favorite things require wide open spaces, so they’re safer than other “out-of-home” hobbies. However, it also made me realize how far we need to go. The sensation of hopping out of the car and meeting a new person without a hand shake, and instead a wave from a safe distance, was awkward. Not being able to commune in the clubhouse or on the driving range before the round was weird. Killing the 15 minutes before the round around the corner from the first tee, unable to approach until it was completely clear felt strange.

While we’re slowly getting portions of our lives back, the experience is going to be so different and require patience and understanding and self-awareness. If this pandemic was a marathon, we’d be on mile 20. Half the race comes in the last six miles. Our bodies and minds are exhausted and screaming at us to just give in, quit, stop worrying. Instead, let’s keep moving forward and taking care of each other.

Best Watch

Home Before Dark: This Apple+ show is a small delight. Hinde Lisko is a 9 year-old amateur journalist whose family just moved back to her father’s childhood home in Washington state. It’s a far cry from Brooklyn where Hilde used to ride along with her journalist dad and help him investigate stories. When an old friend of Hilde’s dad ends up dead, Hilde thinks something suspicious is going on and starts to dig for the truth. The show isn’t GREAT, but it’s a solid, charming show that we keep sitting down to watch each evening. Hilde can be a bit too precocious at times, but it’s been a good one so far.

Tiger, Phil, Tom, and Peyton in The Match 2: This was a great afternoon of golf viewing. Tom Brady sucking at golf brought a lot of people joy. If we weren’t in a pandemic, Tom Brady splitting his pants on national TV after holing out from 150 yards would have exploded the internet. Here are my grades for the players, course, and programming.

Best Read

Notes From Our Homes To Yours: This is a cool NYTimes interactive page where a bunch of reporters and editors and writers are keeping some sort of journal. There’s something in here for everyone, the formatting is cool, as many of them are written in Google Docs, so they’re living, breathing things. Here’s the link.

Best Listen

The Dream Team Tapes: Author and journalist Jack McCallum is The Dream Team expert. He wrote a book on the 1992 Olympians in 2013. He interviewed them all and kept the cassette tapes. This pod weaves in McCallum’s narration with the interviews from ten years ago. It offers solid insight into the making of The Dream Team and its personalities. The podcast made a bit of splash this week when the third episode had Michael Jordan saying he wouldn’t play on the Dream Team if Isiah Thomas was picked. Which makes MJ look like a liar in his very own documentary.

Best Eat

Sheet Pan Italian Sub dinner: Yep, another sub, just not meatball this week. This wasn’t quite an Italian sub , but more like an Italian sub bowl with a sidecar of bread. It was delicious. Here’s the NYTimes cooking recipe.

Best Drink

Homemade Shandy: The thermometer tipped the 80 degree mark this week. Crack open any lager, pour it in a glass, add some lemonade (3:1 beer to lemonade ratio?) and enjoy! Or just buy Leinenkugel shandy, but it isn’t the same.

Best Plugs

The Match 2: I wrote about the Match 2 this weekend where Tom Brady embarrassed himself. Here it is.

The Imperfect Game Podcast: Southampton was this week’s club of choice. If you’re looking for insults based on having sex with fish, then this pod might be for you. Portsmouth and Southampton hate each other, and it’s glorious. I researched the clubs hero Matthew Le Tissier, who is a delight to watch gallop around the field and score amazing goals. iTunes link.


May 29, 2020 /Sean Melia
Soccer, England, Southampton, NYTimes, Tiger Woods, Phil Mickelson, Shandy, Beer, Dream Team Tapes, Jordan, Michael Jordan, Basketball
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Friday Faves: 11/1: Dinner at home, Hot Sauce, Pinegrove, and Pammy's

November 01, 2019 by Sean Melia

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Best Activity:

Celebrating a big birthday: This past Saturday we celebrated my mom’s birthday. It was a big one and we decided to do something different. We had a chef come to my mom’s house and cook dinner for nine of us. It was an insane five-course meal, soup, salad, app, entree, and dessert. Usually when the whole family gets together my mom is cooking us dinner, no matter how many times we ask, “What can bring?” “Can we pick something up on the way over?” The answer is always, “No, I think we’re all set.”

It was worth every penny to watch my mom just get to hang out on Saturday with the rest of us, watching college football, talking, joking around. Usually she’s in the kitchen whipping up something delicious.

If you’re ever looking for a break from the “let’s go out for a nice dinner” routine for birthdays or special occasions, I can’t recommend hiring a chef enough. We used Bistro-at-Home. Chef Ryan is a magician in the kitchen. He brought everything he needed (pots, pans, silverware, dish ware, cutlery… every. thing.). When he left, the kitchen was spotless. Our overstuffed bellies were the only evidence of his visit. Ryan had an assistant who delivered each course to us, so it really was like we were eating in a restaurant.

Best Watch:

Hot Ones: This Youtube show has been around for a while (200 episodes!). The concept is simple: hot sauce, wings, questions, and celebrities. Sean Evans is the mastermind of this show. Over the course of 25 minutes, Sean and the celebrity eat 10 wings (the wings are of their choosing… vegans are welcome…). Each wing is dapped with hot sauce, each wing gets a little bit hotter. While it’s entertaining watching people struggle through ridiculously hot sauces, the questions Sean asks are superb. They’re thoughtful and catch the celebrity off-guard, particularly as the hot sauce heats up. It’s like a truth serum. The Paul Rudd episode was my first introduction to the show… so watch it below if you’d like… beware, it’s a deep rabbit hole…

The Witch: I’ve decided the more people I watch a scary movie with, the less scary it is. On Saturday, four of us watched The Witch, a New England Folktale about a family banished from their village. They moved to the edge of the woods which are haunted by a witch. The movie is set in the Salem Witch Trial era, it’s beautifully shot, it scratched the Halloween itch we all had. My brother and his girlfriend were watching it for the second time, and they said they enjoyed it more the second time around.

Best Listen:

Ryen Russillo’s Monday Podcast: If you’re an NFL fan, this is an excellent, honest, and interesting weekly review of the weekend’s game. Former NFL player Chris Long joins Ryen. Long is open and shares great stories every week about his life in the NFL. The two guys have been friends for a while, so their chemistry is great.

Skylight by Pinegrove: Pinegrove is a band I forgot about for a while. They returned to my radar this week when Phoebe Bridges’ album ended and Spotify started playing whatever the heck it wanted. The song “Rings” is what caught my attention. If you’re looking for a solid, low-key band that writes interesting songs with a leader singer who has a distinct voice, then these guys are for you.

Best Read:

Kyrie, KD, and the Nets Culture: I am thoroughly enjoying the start of the Brooklyn Nets season. Kyrie Irving is scoring a bunch of points and the Nets are allowing even more, leading to a 1-3 start. It’s magical and this ESPN article came out four months earlier than I expected. Kyrie was always gonna be weird, but he blasted through that first date/honeymoon phase to stealing-your-email-password crazy real fast.

Best Eat:

Everything Ryan Cyr cooked for my mom’s birthday: Golly, this was delicious. Here’s what we had on our menu (which was selected from a myriad of choices on his fall/winter menus):

Hard Cider Pumpkin Bisque (10/10), Wedge Salad (7.5/10), Scallops with risotto (8.5/10), Filet mignon (13/10) OR herb encrusted chicken (9.5/10), and tangerine creme brulee (9/10).

Bolognese at Pammy’s: My sister is working in Boston this week. She’s allowed to expense her food. So we went to Pammy’s in Cambridge, which is an incredible restaurant. We sat at the bar because you can’t go to Pammy’s on a whim, you have to plan weeks in advance and make a reservation, even on a Tuesday. Their menu is small and rotates weekly. Some items are staples, the “Lumache” is one of them. It’s a bolognese that includes a hint of Gochujang, adding a bit of spice. The bar scene at Pammy’s is great, the bartenders are very nice, they whip up delicious cocktails. Tiff got some crazy fall spice type old fashioned.

After Saturday and Tuesday, I might have gained 10 pounds… it’s a good thing I’m running a marathon in 10 days…

Best Drink:

Homemade Grapefruit Shandy: Buying beers for a group of people is tough. I went super basic and bought a Sam Adams mixer: Octoberfest, a sour beer, and Sam ‘76. We added some grapefruit juice to the Sam Adams sour to make a little shandy. It was really good, and an excellent brunch drink if you aren’t a bloody mary or mimosa person.

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Read my Atomic Habits Book Club post here.

Read “The Unintended Quiet of Playing a Vinyl Record” here.

Read my quick thoughts on the Celtics-Bucks game from Wednesday night here.

Listen to Both Long and I talk about Arsenal’s captainship problem and the power dynamics in English football clubs on Spotify here. Or on apple podcasts here. Please follow, subscribe, rate, and review!

November 01, 2019 /Sean Melia
Shandy, Ryen Russillo, Pammy's, Kyrie Irving, Brooklyn Nets, Pinegrove, The Witch, Hot Ones
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